Questions that adversely affect the psych

This world is not as artless as it appears to be. The problem lies not in its material or non-human constituents but it is the psychological aspect that determines whether to be cheerful or miserable. Most often, when we are happy because we have achieved some marvelous feat at the same time the clouds of grief, uncertainty, and tension subdue our gladness. In fact, achievement was real and all other antithesis of glee were virtual despite what compelled our mind to value the adverse billows over the positive aspects and quickly wash out the mass of happiness from brain-space?

There are certainly some defects in everyone’s personality or social life which they want to hide from the public. It is that feeling of disclosure which leads astray every good feeling at any time. There are many questions which people avoid answering or facing because most of the time they are asked without due regard to feelings of respondents or the attitude of the asker is not commendable rather it is damaging and discouraging. Following are the few questions which are frequently asked. Apparently, they are general but put a lot of mental pressure owing to ethical meagerness.

What is your age?

Haven’t you married yet?

Are you issueless? Who is at fault?

Are you growing bald?

Look you are developing grey hairs, are you growing old?

Aren’t you older than everyone here, don’t lie.

When people are antagonized with such questions they become mentally dim and are dissuaded to meet such an offender the next time. It is a general mentality that people are disposed to appear young and flawless they feel if their old-age or old-age relevant defects are brought forth before the people they might have to face ominous remarks and behavior and there is possibility of segregation from the mainstream world.

It is therefore necessary for every one to avoid probing such inquiries from the less advantageous people on one hand and simultaneously on the other hand the imperfect persons have to veil their most obvious defect from the public to avoid the over shadowing mental pressure.